Elul Thoughts

Sacred Disagreement, Shared Song

What if the soundtrack to a disagreement could change the way we hear one another?
In this month of Elul, as we reflect, return, and prepare for the High Holy Days, I’ve been thinking not just about inner work, but about how we engage with others—especially when we don’t see eye to eye.
Judaism offers us the concept of Makhloket l'shem Shamayim—disagreement for the sake of Heaven. This is a form of argument that seeks understanding over victory, elevates rather than divides, and honors the dignity of every voice involved.

To aid in the exploration of this concept, I’ve created a playlist of songs that explore difference, dialogue, humility, and connection. Some are drawn from Jewish tradition, like Josh Warshawsky’s “Emet,” a powerful reminder that truth is often layered and complex—and that real understanding begins when we’re willing to listen for more than one voice. Others come from the secular world, like Joni Mitchell’s “Both Sides Now,” a poetic meditation on perspective and growth.

May this music invite you to breathe deeply, listen fully, and step into the sacred space between voices—a space where something holy can emerge.

Click here to explore the Elul Playlist